Edward Eugene Betit
The family and friends of Edward E. Betit give thanks for his 92 years of life. Born in Bennington, Vermont on September 8, 1928, Edward was rooted in a large loving family: fun, generous of spirit and rich in faith. His sister Estelle is the last surviving of 5 siblings. She will miss their daily chats on the phone. Upon returning home from his service in the U.S. Second Armored Division, Edward began working at the A&P Supermarket which, because of his “go-getter” spirit and skill early on, transferred him to the Berkshires where he lived out the remaining years of his life.
In 1953 he married his beloved Zelia Smachetti (d. 2012). When he introduced her to his family, they all said, “She’s the one.” Indeed she was! They made a home together for over 60 years, raising four children, Diane, Michael, Peter and John, and selflessly offering themselves to the wider community.
Edward lived to serve others. He was always raising his hand as a volunteer. Over the course of his years he served on numerous boards and committees in the Town of Cheshire, the Adams Cheshire Regional School District, and his beloved St. Mary of the Assumption church community. He was truly an exemplar of that Great Generation, always willing to do his duty, and never counting the cost.
Edward was a true friend, the sort that does not run away when the chips are down. Over the course of his lifetime he had amassed a beautiful and large circle of friendship, including the Zarek brothers, his work mates from Harry’s and Berkshire Community College, his ski patrol buddies, and numerous friends from town. He was a wonderful cook and it brought him great joy when his friends and family came together to share a meal that he had prepared. Ed was fun to be around and loved to tell stories. We will especially miss the ones that took him too long to tell.
Music and the arts ran deep through his veins. He grew up in a family of musicians and on any given night, could be found in a jam session either playing trumpet, singing or performing in a variety show. He shared the love of music with his children and church choir with whom he sang for over 50 years. We will miss his silly songs and how he whistled all day long. He was a skilled wood worker and took great delight in sharing his crafts with his children and especially his grandchildren Jason, John, Krysta, Lynsey, Samuel, Sophia and Catherine and his two great grands, Zelia (little Zel) and Aniela. His keepsake clocks, cradles, and curios will be forever cherished.
Edward was a force of nature, never allergic to hard work and to the very end kept on keeping on. We are incredibly grateful for his witness, his indominable spirit, and his love so freely shared.
Given the limitations of pandemic and winter, a liturgy in celebration of his life will take place in the Spring. In the meantime, we ask for your prayers, consider a donation in his name to the Cheshire Fire Department and most of all, like Ed, take the time to “raise your hand,” say “yes” to something or someone. Do your duty, share your gifts, and love without counting the cost.
Farewell Silver Fox. Give Grammy hugs and kisses from us all.